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9/9/2009 What I did on my summer vacationI can't believe how delayed I am in posting this entry, but at least I'm finally doing it. The text has been written over many days, so I apologize if it's disjointed. The most important thing to discuss about my summer (although everyone who reads this knows this fact already): Eric Christopher joined our family on Saturday, July 11 (5 days overdue) at 6:17am. He was 8lb 5oz and 21 1/2 in long at birth - and darling! A few noteworthy things about Eric:
So, we're doing pretty well. I'll be home with the kids until he's 10 weeks old (I go back on the 21st). We've gotten into a routine of going out in the morning to entertain both Kate and myself, and then our afternoons are mellow (Kate still takes a ~3 hour nap everyday). Most days are great, although by the time Jay gets home I'm ready for some assistance - Kate and I both get crabby at the same time in the late afternoon/early evening, so our days almost always start off better than they end. Eric's daytime routine has been very much a work in progress for the entire time he's been here. He is definitely NOT a good napper; I get these little 30min respites scattered through the day, and when he wakes up he's often still tired and will fall back asleep within 20min in my arms. I'm not sure how to help him sleep for longer periods. He also strongly prefers to sleep in my arms, although that's a habit that I'm trying to break him of before it's an impossibility when I'm back at work. He's been spending more and more time sleeping in his crib in anticipation of more "real" naps and the impending move from the co-sleeper in our room. For the last few days I've been putting him to bed in his crib and then bringing him to the co-sleeper for the rest of the night once he wakes up to nurse. I think he's getting used to the crib, but he still strongly prefers to be held for his daytime naps. He'll outgrow it, but for now it's a bit of a nuisance, frankly, and it makes the whole going back to work thing a little worrisome. Kate has been great with Eric from the beginning and is still coping with the disruption to her life very well. My mom, Claire, and Kate came to the hospital late in the afternoon on the day Eric was born, and letting Kate hold him was darling: Eric loves her! He has started smiling when he hears her voice, and I know the days of him following her everywhere are not far off. A little about Kate - after Eric was born I finished getting her potty trained, so that's been a big deal. She has been ok being home everyday although she talks about her school, teachers, and friends nearly everyday. She's in love with all things princess, pony, and mermaid. She'll be three in just a couple of weeks, and I'm starting to think about a small kid party for her with her friends from our neighborhood. She's definitely 2 going on 3, but she is a really good kid. We've had fun together this summer - even with a crying newborn disrupting our playtime on a regular basis! So, my mom moves in 11 days! She moved her furniture and a lot of her stuff down a couple of weeks ago, so her pad is all set and waiting for her to occupy it. It is, unsurprisingly, the nicest part of the house now - someday we'll own real furniture too. In case I haven't written about it, we chose to finish a third level in the house specifically for this purpose. She has a living room, a bedroom, and a full bathroom. She's set up a mini-kitchenette in her bedroom (that sounds kind of ridiculous, but it's not) with a mini-fridge, microwave, coffee pot...We weren't able to find a house that we liked with a full in-law suite, and this set up seems like it will be a good compromise. We're all pretty excited about the upcoming arrangement, and there is no question that you can't have a better nanny than a loving grandparent. Jay and I aren't concerned about living with her at all, and we both are certain that her presence is really going to simplify our lives. We've very lucky! In the way of general updates (sorry this is so random)...After months of not getting paid and then true unemployment, Jay started back at Microsoft at the end of July; he's working in the DC office on a healthcare product and is thrilled to be back. We're really thrilled that he has a paycheck coming in again! We haven't done much with our house (massive understatement), but now that there is some money again the plans are really starting to solidify. First up: furniture for our family room. We're really hoping to take care of our exterior next year: patio, fence, sprinkler system. For now we keep dreaming...I'm looking forward to going back to work. I like being home with the kids, but I really enjoy my job and I miss that environment. Unfortunately my boss quit and her last day is Friday (i.e., before I return). I'm unbelievably bummed about losing her, but I'm looking at it from the at-least-I-got-her-for-a-little-while perspective. I'm desperate to visit Seattle - with Jay back at MSFT it's a more likely possibility now. We toyed with going out there over Labor Day, but the cost was crazy and some critical friends weren't going to be around, so we ditched that idea. Then last Friday he heard that he might have to go out for training next week; we decided that if it came through we'd all go, even though it would be pricey for the rest of us to join him. After a long weekend of tightly crossed fingers he found out yesterday that he won't be going next week. Major disappointment! It would have been great to go without using any of my vacation time. Oh well - we are bound and determined to get out there very soon. When people ask if I miss Seattle all I can say is "yes" because to say much more is too upsetting, but it just doesn't capture it. I am truly glad that we moved - the bond that Kate has with Claire alone was worth it - but it's too bad that the move had to be so great a distance. I thought that with time this whole thing would get easier, but in some ways it's just getting tougher. OK, enough about that... I'd like to say with certainty that I'll post more entries soon, but you know how I've been. Amazingly I'm at least as busy at home with the two munchkins as I am when I'm working - maybe there's no commute, but there's no shortage of work! People aren't kidding when they say the jump from one kid to two is huge. More photos from the last two months to make you smile... Comments (5)
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